My Brew Thang is our coffee-and-connection community — a project my husband and I are building one gathering at a time. Coffee dates, couples’ mornings, and rooms where people actually talk to each other.
We got married in July 2026, and somewhere in the middle of planning a life together we noticed something: the conversations that changed things for us almost always happened over coffee. Unhurried. Face to face. Phones down.
So we started making room for other people to have those conversations too. That’s My Brew Thang — not a coffee shop, not a class, just a well-made excuse for people to sit down together and talk about what actually matters.
The most underrated relationship tool there is. Nobody rushes a good cup.
We bring the prompts and the questions. You bring the honesty.
Caring about people means caring what happens to them. That’s where SurCare comes in.
Gastonia first, then wherever this thing decides to go next.
Small by design. Space is genuinely limited, so RSVPs matter.
Our gatherings are open to anyone who wants to come. There is no cost to attend, no purchase necessary, and no obligation of any kind.
Couples’ morning
A morning for couples to slow down over coffee and talk through the conversations that matter — connection, communication, and building a life together. Come as you are; we’ll handle the rest.
Just ten spots — five couples — so RSVP to hold yours.
Send me the details of your next coffee dates and gatherings and I’ll add them here as proper event cards.
Walk in, grab a cup, find a seat. There’s no name tag and nobody makes you stand up and introduce yourself.
A few honest prompts, a bit of guided conversation, and enough time to actually get somewhere with it.
Usually a conversation you’d been putting off, occasionally a new friend, and always an open invitation to come back.
Coffee spots we love, conversation prompts, and the behind-the-scenes of building this thing.
TikTok is coming — send me the handle once it’s live and I’ll add it here.
We’re not just running events. We’re building toward a place — somewhere the coffee, the conversation and the community all live under one roof.
Coffee dates, couples’ mornings and community gatherings. Building the community first, in real rooms, with real people.
More events, more partners, and a bigger footprint across Gaston County and the greater Charlotte area.
In two to three years: a genuine third place where you can do a load of laundry, get a proper cup of coffee, and end up in a conversation you didn’t expect. Everything we’re doing now is practice for that room.
Our gatherings are small and they do fill up. Join the list and you’ll hear about new dates before they go public.
Event announcements only. Unsubscribe any time.
I’m Fallon — a licensed insurance agent and the founder of SurCare Insurance & Consulting. Life, health and Medicare, with auto and home on the way.
It’s the same work, honestly. Sitting down with someone, asking real questions, and helping them protect what they care about. My Brew Thang is just that instinct without the paperwork.